When the bottom falls out…

... something that suddenly fails or becomes unable to continue in a normal and effective way. That's the definition of the phrase "when the bottom falls out". I have known this feeling almost consistently in my life as a Black American woman. Especially, when it comes to people. I had to learn that some people …

The 10 year challenge.

I did a 10 year challenge in 2021 after I did my big chop. I struggle. So many beautiful parts of me are in my past. Yet, so many broken, sad, and hurt parts of me are in my past and linger in the present. I seem to languish with one leg in the NOW, …

And when the mask falls off in the pandemic

Believe people's actions over their words. People's treatment of you will always reveal the truth. #MommyFab

Some people ain’t sh**

WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY REALLY ARE, please, please believe them the first time. #MommyFab

Let go….

Let go or be dragged. #MommyFab

Passion

Passion is completely necessary at times. #MommyFab

Be a person of your word or beat it…

... but being a good, kind person who stands accountable never grows old. That's also being in the game... admitting when you don't have the capacity to live up to your word. #MommyFab

Wisdom at 45

I pick up on the little things and the usually tell the tale.

Was it really real son?

Lesson 1: don't share toothbrushes, mixtapes or your heart. #MommyFab

A time….

I ran out of time... And my Momma was just... Gone.