And then there’s Valentine’s Day

For some of us, the heavens have pissed on the very idea that we should find love and joy. We deserve so much love and joy, but for some of us there is only sadness. I think the horrible consequences of choosing the wrong mate, the wrong friends, the wrong path, and the wrong lovers …

Behavior

I'm death scrolling in the early morn because I am not having morning sex. I'm middle aged and alone after multiple failed relationships. Yet i'm at peace and not being mistreated, so I guess being alone without emotional or physical calamity is indeed a f'ing flex. I think we should prepare people (Black American women …

The unstoppable beacon of joy

We deserve joy. #MommyFab

I used to be brave.

I was brave enough to try and be free as a Black woman, even as the world seeks to dehumanize me. #MommyFab

Life comes at you fast….

I'm drinking my second glass of Malbec wondering where I went wrong. I'm also happily listening to some dope lo-fi music that I want to Shazam. ...but I won't because I am in my feelings and typing this on my Nord N10. Lol. So I am just here at the bar, with a water chaser …

Things

Sometimes my heart breaks for humanity.

We all deserve to feel joy

You deserve joy, forever more. #MommyFab

Let go or be dragged…

You deserve to be loved completely, with fervor and vigor. Pining for reciprocity is a fool's errand. You will be dragged everytime.

I am loved.

Simple: I am loved. I give love and it comes back to me. I consider myself abundantly Blessed. #MommyFab

Talk to the paper

Things just spilled onto the paper and then I tucked the papers away. Sometimes it is hard to do these days because after a day of adulting and parenting, I'm tired. So I sit with the sadness. #MommyFab