I am sorry you hate yourself….

... but leave my beautiful Black ass out of it. Recently, I was reflecting about the past relationships I have had and like a runaway freight train, it hit me. Some of the men I have been romantically or sexually linked to hated themselves for being Black and they hated dark-skin Black women in tandem. …

I have everything I prayed for, it just came at different times.

What if I told you all the prayers of my youth were answered. God / Universe looked out for me and I am still covered. #MommyFab

New Year, Not New Me, New Decade, Glad I am still here.

I'm happy to be alive, writing this blog post because things could have went a lot differently. Upwards and Onwards #2020.

Why I didn’t rush today…

I refused to rush today. #MommyFab

Yes, I’m a Mom and yes I am also a complex human being…

I'm a Mom. I get depressed. I love cheese. Large breakfast plates excite me. I ponder my existence in the aisles of Home Depot.

Be happy where you are ….

Because life is so short and real love is fleeting. Enjoy the moments of joy. Live presently in that moment.

April is #Sarcoidosis Awareness Month

I had a different post prepared today to drum up some excitement about April being Sarcoidosis Awareness month. And then last night I went into a Sarcoidosis flare which carried on into TODAY. So perhaps, it's not for me to prepare a "feel good" post about Sarcoidosis. Perhaps today, I can tell you what it …

Why do you have to dim your light for some people? Cause they are whack… that’s why!

People who try and dim your light are not worthy of you. Remember that.

Make space for yourself so you can “come thru” for you…

We all hold space for bullshhh and dead things in our own way and I'm begging you - LET IT GO. Let it all go of all your dead weight and make space for YOU. Darling you are so worth it. You are so worth all the space your tender heart can hold because you love like no other and you are worthy of love. - #MommyFab

Life & Nothing More (Film Review)

And the most powerful thread of this film was the bond between the Mother and her son, for she loved him as best as she knew how - as best as she could and that was a beautiful thing because Black American boys deserve love, they deserve grace and they deserve kindness. #MommyFab #EfabulousHB #LifeAndNothingMore