And then there’s Valentine’s Day

For some of us, the heavens have pissed on the very idea that we should find love and joy. We deserve so much love and joy, but for some of us there is only sadness. I think the horrible consequences of choosing the wrong mate, the wrong friends, the wrong path, and the wrong lovers … Continue reading And then there’s Valentine’s Day

Behavior

I'm death scrolling in the early morn because I am not having morning sex. I'm middle aged and alone after multiple failed relationships. Yet i'm at peace and not being mistreated, so I guess being alone without emotional or physical calamity is indeed a f'ing flex. I think we should prepare people (Black American women … Continue reading Behavior

Adulthood is just coping with childhood trauma as best as you can

Disclaimer: I feel embolden to remind anyone reading this blog that this is a blog that examine life from the Black American (who are descendants of Chattel slavery) experience. I don't apologize for it. That's my voice. In this space, that voice will always be first and respected. Read on... I went home for the … Continue reading Adulthood is just coping with childhood trauma as best as you can