I used to be brave.

I was brave enough to try and be free as a Black woman, even as the world seeks to dehumanize me. #MommyFab

Life comes at you fast….

I'm drinking my second glass of Malbec wondering where I went wrong. I'm also happily listening to some dope lo-fi music that I want to Shazam. ...but I won't because I am in my feelings and typing this on my Nord N10. Lol. So I am just here at the bar, with a water chaser …

Self affirmation is continuous.

Self affirmation challenges you to be better.

Things

Sometimes my heart breaks for humanity.

Sometimes things are beautiful.

Disclaimer: I'm happy. Get into it. For a long time in my life, multiple stretches of time, I didn't know what joy felt like. I faked happiness. Yet, there were these moments, fleeting moments, that I got to be free and joyful. Joy for me is tied directly into the ability to be unapologetically me. …

Black Women are HUMAN. Bar None.

Black women are human. We are allowed to make mistakes. We are deserving of Grace. You should not have to be perfect or the supremacist idea of "respectable" to deserve Grace and Mercy.

I was not ready to say “Goodbye”…

A lot of times I watched you from the sidelines. I loved to see your 1,000 watt smile when you felt good. I was proud of you, kiddo.

We all deserve to feel joy

You deserve joy, forever more. #MommyFab

I struggle

The destination matters not so much because now I just want to experience love, triumph, adoration, satisfaction, and self -affirmation while I am on the way. #MommyFab #EfabulousHB

Let go or be dragged…

You deserve to be loved completely, with fervor and vigor. Pining for reciprocity is a fool's errand. You will be dragged everytime.