#DivorceMomChronicles  … I hope that those who have love, cherish love and work hard at love… because it’s the #WORK  that keeps the #MARRIAGE  together. You have to do the work.  #MommyFab   #EfabulousHB   #HopingForAGreatEarthlyLoveRon Willis originally shared: Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives.”  Eph 5:25 TMLove Works When Nothing … Continue reading

#Coparenting #DivorceMomChronicles … I always believed myself to be fair. I help others, that’s part of my personal ministry. However, I don’t think it’s kind to myself or my quality of life when I help other people to my own detriment. I don’t even know if the person would do the same. #MommyFab #EfabulousHB

#DivorceMomChronicles #SometimesTruthHurts … This morning I woke up with my mind exceptionally challenged. Instead of getting upset, I took a deep breath and had an internal conversation about the uncomfortable topic of being an eccentric black woman and being alone. Right now I wish I could “unfeel” all these emotions. I cannot. At this time, … Continue reading

#DivorceMomChronicles … One of the most notable things about being a divorced single mom is the hurt of the heart. With time it becomes less frequent, but there is this lingering pain there and your absolute resolve is needed to silence the voices that come with the hurt. I tend to hurt when I am … Continue reading

#DivorceMomChronicles … BELIEVE IN YO’ SELF!!!! #MommyFab #EfabulousHB #FabWorld #FabGirls #LiveLifeLove #LIFE #Houston #HoustonSuperstars #beautiful #40zFabulousness #KeepItMoving

PLEASE HELP: I Can’t Stop Sleeping with My Ex – xoJane

Sex in emotionally convoluted relationships only leads to further confusion, giving the other person what they want (cheap physical connection) and you an unhelpful, scientifically proven chemical attachment caused by oxytocin. When you’re trying to pull yourself out of a non-functioning, lopsided relationship, there is no greater enemy to your psychological well-being than oxytocin, which, … Continue reading PLEASE HELP: I Can’t Stop Sleeping with My Ex – xoJane

“You can’t make people love you – even if you continue to f**k them in the hopes that they will one day love you.” #DivorceMomChronicles #MommyFab #EfabulousHB #FabWorld #FabGirls

#DivorceMomChronicles … sometimes I wonder would my life be better had I never got married. Then I look at my darling kiddo and think… if all the awkwardness, pain and emotional confusion was to get to this moment and be a mom to this awesome kid… then no life would not have been better.  I … Continue reading