It feels like death…

Death stays with you. #Mommyfab

The 10 year challenge.

I did a 10 year challenge in 2021 after I did my big chop. I struggle. So many beautiful parts of me are in my past. Yet, so many broken, sad, and hurt parts of me are in my past and linger in the present. I seem to languish with one leg in the NOW, …

I struggle

The destination matters not so much because now I just want to experience love, triumph, adoration, satisfaction, and self -affirmation while I am on the way. #MommyFab #EfabulousHB

The matter…

Then peak adulthood is learning to be happy with your lot in life and be well chuffed with who you actually are. #MommyFab

Don’t let your heart wake up…

When I am loved I feel as though I am safe. #MommyFab

Coming full circle

If you come to my house, it feels like a home. And for the first time in my life, I am no longer running .... I'm happy here in this place, I made a home for me and my modern family.

I had won the war

All I remember is me getting up from the desk feeling like a f***ing rockstar because I create things like a badass.

When you can no longer run

I just hope the spirits of all my ancestors are behind me as I pick up my shield and my sword and prepare for battle.

The wails of a good woman

I decided the toxic social hierarchy of American society and how it hates Black women was longer my burden to carry. #MommyFab

You’re over 45 and divorced. Dating is going to be like a damn circus. Face it.

The last thing I want to say is that life doesn't end after divorce, it changes radically, though. You change. Your preferences changes. What you won't and will allow will change. #MommyFab