So you get a little wiser with time

Things become crystal clear in your 40s and 50s. #MommyFab

And so the locs

I'm not original. I mean I am an original but I do things that are trendy. Everybody and their 2nd cousin has started a loc journey. And gotdamnit they should!!! My God, the freedom. The freedom for a Black American person to wear their hair as it grows out of their head is monumental to …

Create space

Life is short. Create space for YOU. You deserve it.

And it’s more of the same

And moreso will I only be seen through my words and it be the only escape from the invisibility I have always felt deep in my heart as a Black American woman.

A change has come…

Life ebbs and flows. A change soon comes. #MommyFab

The 10 year challenge.

I did a 10 year challenge in 2021 after I did my big chop. I struggle. So many beautiful parts of me are in my past. Yet, so many broken, sad, and hurt parts of me are in my past and linger in the present. I seem to languish with one leg in the NOW, …

Adulthood is just coping with childhood trauma as best as you can

Disclaimer: I feel embolden to remind anyone reading this blog that this is a blog that examine life from the Black American (who are descendants of Chattel slavery) experience. I don't apologize for it. That's my voice. In this space, that voice will always be first and respected. Read on... I went home for the …

Life comes at you fast….

I'm drinking my second glass of Malbec wondering where I went wrong. I'm also happily listening to some dope lo-fi music that I want to Shazam. ...but I won't because I am in my feelings and typing this on my Nord N10. Lol. So I am just here at the bar, with a water chaser …

Power of the Palate … powered by Maker’s Mark

A wee dram, a cocktail, a mocktail... Power of the Palate, powered by Maker's Mark. Oooh, let's have a drink, shall we!!!! #MommyFab

Things

Sometimes my heart breaks for humanity.