And then there’s Valentine’s Day

For some of us, the heavens have pissed on the very idea that we should find love and joy. We deserve so much love and joy, but for some of us there is only sadness. I think the horrible consequences of choosing the wrong mate, the wrong friends, the wrong path, and the wrong lovers …

Behavior

I'm death scrolling in the early morn because I am not having morning sex. I'm middle aged and alone after multiple failed relationships. Yet i'm at peace and not being mistreated, so I guess being alone without emotional or physical calamity is indeed a f'ing flex. I think we should prepare people (Black American women …

The sprint within a marathon…

I don't want to sprint all the time. I want to pace myself for a long cross-country race, where I win at the end. Right now, I am sprinting and I feel like on all fronts, I am losing the race. #MommyFab

The quiet, soul crushing stress of being a single Black Mother during a pandemic…

Should I get the virus, when I seek assistance, they won't treat me like a human being, or an American citizen -- because my life doesn't matter to 80% of the country. #MommyFab

My contribution to the ISOLATION JOURNALS

I decided to write my younger self and older self some love letters. #MommyFab

Quarantine and isolation is forcing me to sit with my broken bits

Pray for me and other parents like me who are trying to keep a smile on their face for their children while they navigate the uncertainty of this pandemic and what it means for our livelihoods and emotional / mental stability. #MommyFab

And now this is where your humanities class left off…

In a quantum realm far way, there is a guy who will appreciate all that I am, as I am. #MommyFab

And then there was just ME

It is always down to you. No one else and you have to get it done because a small human who loves you unconditionally depends on you and you are their world. That's an honorable, loving and very serious cross to bare.  #MommyFab #EfabulousHB

“People-Less Persons”…

Are you able to grasp the concept of a "people-less" person? #FabGratitude

And sometimes I look back and I am “sad mad”…

And sometimes I look back and I am "sad mad"...