The illusion of oneness

Unity does not exist. Maybe oneness is a concept that's been eradicated. #Monnyfab

Go make a difference

Grab your greatness by making a difference in the lives of others. #Mommyfab #EfabulousHB

Create space

Life is short. Create space for YOU. You deserve it.

When the bottom falls out…

... something that suddenly fails or becomes unable to continue in a normal and effective way. That's the definition of the phrase "when the bottom falls out". I have known this feeling almost consistently in my life as a Black American woman. Especially, when it comes to people. I had to learn that some people …

And it’s more of the same

And moreso will I only be seen through my words and it be the only escape from the invisibility I have always felt deep in my heart as a Black American woman.

A change has come…

Life ebbs and flows. A change soon comes. #MommyFab

And then there’s Valentine’s Day

For some of us, the heavens have pissed on the very idea that we should find love and joy. We deserve so much love and joy, but for some of us there is only sadness. I think the horrible consequences of choosing the wrong mate, the wrong friends, the wrong path, and the wrong lovers …

It feels like death…

Death stays with you. #Mommyfab

The 10 year challenge.

I did a 10 year challenge in 2021 after I did my big chop. I struggle. So many beautiful parts of me are in my past. Yet, so many broken, sad, and hurt parts of me are in my past and linger in the present. I seem to languish with one leg in the NOW, …

Behavior

I'm death scrolling in the early morn because I am not having morning sex. I'm middle aged and alone after multiple failed relationships. Yet i'm at peace and not being mistreated, so I guess being alone without emotional or physical calamity is indeed a f'ing flex. I think we should prepare people (Black American women …