And so the locs

I'm not original. I mean I am an original but I do things that are trendy. Everybody and their 2nd cousin has started a loc journey. And gotdamnit they should!!! My God, the freedom. The freedom for a Black American person to wear their hair as it grows out of their head is monumental to …

When the bad people, bad things, and bad situations go away

Not all things loss are a loss. Sometimes they are a divine win.

Sometimes I forget and then I remember

Sometimes I run out of spoons. #MommyFab

The illusion of oneness

Unity does not exist. Maybe oneness is a concept that's been eradicated. #Monnyfab

Go make a difference

Grab your greatness by making a difference in the lives of others. #Mommyfab #EfabulousHB

When the bottom falls out…

... something that suddenly fails or becomes unable to continue in a normal and effective way. That's the definition of the phrase "when the bottom falls out". I have known this feeling almost consistently in my life as a Black American woman. Especially, when it comes to people. I had to learn that some people …

And it’s more of the same

And moreso will I only be seen through my words and it be the only escape from the invisibility I have always felt deep in my heart as a Black American woman.

It feels like death…

Death stays with you. #Mommyfab

The 10 year challenge.

I did a 10 year challenge in 2021 after I did my big chop. I struggle. So many beautiful parts of me are in my past. Yet, so many broken, sad, and hurt parts of me are in my past and linger in the present. I seem to languish with one leg in the NOW, …

Adulthood is just coping with childhood trauma as best as you can

Disclaimer: I feel embolden to remind anyone reading this blog that this is a blog that examine life from the Black American (who are descendants of Chattel slavery) experience. I don't apologize for it. That's my voice. In this space, that voice will always be first and respected. Read on... I went home for the …