I’m death scrolling in the early morn because I am not having morning sex. I’m middle aged and alone after multiple failed relationships. Yet i’m at peace and not being mistreated, so I guess being alone without emotional or physical calamity is indeed a f’ing flex.
I think we should prepare people (Black American women especially) to mourn and then accept aloneness in Middle Age. We should fortify young people with the idea that you have to make the best of the life you have and let go of the life you thought you wanted.