It is not a question of “if”, it is always “when”

It was never a question of "if" he was going to cheat on me, it was always the question of "when". I carried that on my heart for a long time. #MommyFab

Parenting is not a perfect science, thank God it isn’t.

I'm just wondering why people seek perfection in rearing a human being when we know perfection is a hustle and it doesn't exist. Perfection is by far one of the antithesis of humanism, is it not?

Hurt people, they hurt people

In my 39th year on the planet, I got divorced. I am still working through the emotional and mental fallout. Desperately, I am trying to heal. Yet, so many parts of me broke into small shards, the clean up is never ending. When I am not volunteering, working, freelancing, or fighting Sarcoidosis, I am trying …

#PromChallenge

I went to prom. Thanks to my Auntie for making my dress. I was actually a size 2. #MommyFab

Stop insulting single Mother’s humanity when you make shallow attempts to date them

These SuperMoms are worthy of love, kindness, generosity, engagement, communication from someone with substance, moral fiber, patience and most of all some type of decent emotional intelligence quotient. #MommyFab

Let go….

Let go or be dragged. #MommyFab

Sometimes there are bad days…

Sometimes there are bad days with Sarcoidosis, but I am still Blessed I have more good days than bad. #MommyFab

Happy Birthday Ma ❤

Today, she would have been 72. I am sharing some prose I wrote last year in celebration of her life. Today, Areather (nee' Armour) Courtenay would have been 71 years old today. I write a lot about my Mom and losing my Mom at age 21 on my blog and in cathartic posts on this …